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| A friend that ignores you: The EPIC conclusion of the trilogy! | |
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| Jonny Justice | Dec 11 2010, 06:39 PM Post #1 |
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So, first you heard me yelling about one of my friends who wouldn't give me the light of day. Then...you heard me do it again, only angrier. Now, you will hear the conclusion. We fought for about an hour on facebook a few nights ago. Finally, I just got tired of it. I told her, either treat me like a friend, or we might as well end this. After a while of talking about that, I finally just told her that I thought it was best if we just cut off all contact with each other if we ever hope to be able to be friends again. So we removed eachother as facebook friends, stopped following eachother on twitter, all that good stuff. I feel like I made the right decision, before it turned into something REALLY ugly, and maybe in the future, things can work out. But for now, I know they won't. While I'm confident that I made the correct choice, I feel...terrible. I obviously had feelings for her of more than friendship, but I was HAPPY with friendship. Of course, I was always hoping for more. However, now I find myself trying to move on, but everytime I think about love, girls, sex, anything pertaining to relationships, I think of her, and I think "I'll never find someone like her, no one as pretty, or smart, or intellectual." And it just gets me down. Even though she's out of my life, she's still ruining it. I don't know what I should do, but I want some more advice from you guys, since it's been very helpful in the past. |
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| Eltimo21 | Dec 11 2010, 06:48 PM Post #2 |
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I would just bite the bullet and try to make it work, the same thing is happening to me right now and it sucks. I hope things become better for but you also need to remember don't get to caught up in this. Just live your life and be happy and just hope for the best. 
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| sdcpro | Dec 11 2010, 07:13 PM Post #3 |
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It sounds like you've already given her the time of day to make it work if it was going to lead somewhere. You can self-sacrifice constantly while the other side does nothing, whether it be friendship or a relationship. I've had to do it before with my friends and while it did feel terrible, because I felt like it was just something I didn't want to do, I realized I had to make the right choice and move on. Take pride in your decision and stay confident with it. You may dwell for a bit but it'll get easier and you will find someone better than her. I did and I found a girl that I've been with for 2 years now 
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| browland1 | Dec 11 2010, 07:16 PM Post #4 |
 
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You made the right decision, even if it hurts like hell now. The problem is that your feelings for her clouded your better judgment, made you tolerate things you shouldn't and excuse the inexcusable. A lot of people, myself included, have been there and it's tough to move past it because you'll always be thinking of her, wanting to call her or rationalizing what you had as being alright. Try not to fall into that trap. It wasn't a good friendship; based on everything you have said, it was very one-sided and you ultimately put a lot of work into it and received little in return. You definitely deserve better from a friend, and I honestly recommend cooling off and not contacting her. It will get easier with time and you'll find yourself missing her less and less. And if the lines of communication open in the future, you'll hopefully be nonchalant about it and be happy with a friend-only arrangement. If not, you'll have moved onto someone else by then and you won't care as much. Either way, it's clear that she isn't as invested in things as you are and I hope you don't put more time and energy into her. If she doesn't appreciate you, move on and devote your energy to people that do. It's her loss.
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| KingJames88 | Dec 11 2010, 07:26 PM Post #5 |
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Don't dwell on it too long or over react. You'll see in a few months it won't be bothering you any more. There's a lot of girls out there so don't worry about it too much. |
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| Golden_Age_Gamer | Dec 12 2010, 04:19 PM Post #6 |
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First of all, I'm the most awesome guy here. My thoughts count more than them. And from this I read "So, first you heard me yelling about one of my friends who wouldn't give me the light of day" She's not your friend. She's acting like a bitch. Treating you that way. If you love her like you say, you should sneak a indirect way to get her to talk to you. I'm sure you have the same friends with her. My friend told the girl I liked a bogus story and she came back crying for me. You'll get over the pain. Remember, this is chess. Not checkers with ladies these days. |
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| Overtimee | Dec 14 2010, 07:44 PM Post #7 |
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I think you shouldn't talk about such things on the internet. I'd try to call her and ask if you can meet somewhere and talk about it. |
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| MuayThaiNinja | Dec 14 2010, 08:29 PM Post #8 |
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Girls can read your desire to screw them, friend or not. The whole 'we're friends!' thing is just a ruse to reap all of the benefits of having a boyfriend without having to give sex. It's the oldest trick in the book and you shouldn't fall for it anymore. |
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| Andsy | Dec 15 2010, 04:33 AM Post #9 |
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Dude... I thought you were gay. 
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| Overtimee | Dec 15 2010, 08:01 AM Post #10 |
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| Golden_Age_Gamer | Dec 15 2010, 09:09 PM Post #11 |
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Hm, my advice is better. |
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| Jonny Justice | Dec 17 2010, 09:04 PM Post #12 |
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Well, in the few days since I've kicked her outta my life, I've already met a girl who is more than willing to pull her weight on her end of the friendship, and she likes gaming, and she likes me. So we'll see where things go...I guess I really was kind of being held back by my old friend! And Andsy, while I'm totally cool with gay people, I myself am not gay, nor bi...but I can totally understand why you might think I was. I mean, my fashion sense is a little whack. Lol. |
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| sdcpro | Dec 17 2010, 10:24 PM Post #13 |
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lol @ Andsy Glad to see things worked out for the better and so soon as well. Talk about a one week rebound. |
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| Jonny Justice | Dec 17 2010, 10:46 PM Post #14 |
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Granted that rebound has been coming for 2 years... |
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| Andsy | Dec 18 2010, 02:26 AM Post #15 |
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Perfect time to state that sexual preference doesn't define a person. ;P But glad you reached some form of understand in regards to this person, ultimately happiness has gotta come first. |
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| Golden_Age_Gamer | Dec 18 2010, 12:53 PM Post #16 |
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lmao! She likes games? YOU HAVE A WINNER. My finance loves games 2, and other things *wink* |
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| KeeL246 | Dec 18 2010, 03:17 PM Post #17 |
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I'm glad your finance loves games, but what about your fiance? |
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| Golden_Age_Gamer | Dec 18 2010, 07:06 PM Post #18 |
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She's amazing. She's like a male version of me. Awesome. I'm gonna make a tread about it. |
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